Nope Not getting married EVER the date was pleasant, but WAY TOO MUCH BAGGAGE.
Sweet guy, poilte and eager to please. WAY to much info for a first date. Yet another disappointment.
I am still itching from my rash. I am making a dermatologit appointment this week. It's been with me over a week. I soaked in an oatmeal bath this evening. I got about 6 yrs of relief. (yeah)
It's 1:19 a.m. and my alarm will be going off in 5 hours.
18 more days of school for me.
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Oh dont ya hate baggage... and too much info sux too...
better luck next time...
Maybe summer break will have better luck. ((((hugs)))
Well if you think about it, will you ever find someone in our age bracket that doesn't have baggage? By the time we get to our 30's, we've either had a crap marriage [or a few], some nasty break-ups,custody battles over kids, been really hurt etc. Or even all of the above.
Maybe he thought it would be better to get it all out of the way first so there's no surprises later on? Men find it hard talking about stuff as it is. Maybe one of his freinds or relatives gave him the dumb advise of getting it all out on the first date? [Some other single freind mind you lol]
You can't give him a few dates? You never know :o)
I had a lot of baggage when i met my husband. I was really damaged and i made it kinda hard for him! But John saw through the crap and stuck with me. Now we are best mates and i wouldn't change anything at all!
If he had of put me in the "too hard" basket right away, we would have both missed out on something beautiful.
Give him a bit of a go. What have you got to lose? :o)
Yeah, we all have baggage. Life just has a way of dumping that crap on you and some things you can let go and some things are there in the forefront.
I wouldn't want too much info on the first date, either. The first date is the chemistry date - it's either there or it ain't. If the chemistry isn't there - the info isn't relevant or needed to be known.
I've always said - don't rush and don't force it. If it ain't there for ya, it ain't there. You will know when it is, trust us. You just "know".
wbs- he's divorced twice, 3 kids, bankruptcy and a sister in jail.
Bri- yeah right
CF- I can handle some baggage really. I'd be ok with a child, one divorce and even a few credit problems....but he had ALL of it and then some.
RAch- Men suck
oh, I was gonna say, since were getting older, the baggage CAN pile up BUT then I read YOUR comment about the kids, divorce, bankruptcy, jailbird sister.....RUN screaming away from THAT sista!
((hugs)) sorry about the rash. Have you been using any new detergant/fabric softner/soaps/lotions?
yeah, I was at first gonna say give him another date. Maybe he was just nervous and gave you too much info. He probably just wanted to be honest with you. But, that does sound like a lot of baggage, yikes!
Maybe, just keep trying to meet new people and it will happen when you least expect it, I mean meeting a nice guy.
Baggage builds character, girl! He has learned from these mistakes. You're ahead of the game with him.
Always give a second chance. It may be just what YOU need.
Tell us more about him. What did you like about him? Was he on time? Come on, he couldn't have been THAT horrid!
D :)
Hope Monday passed without incident! Hooray for the end of school!
I finally got thru to your comment on his histiry.
Girl, put that stuff up top! Sheesh.
bummer.
He's got lots of bad history. Your first date wasa like a psych dump session. Sheesh, again!
Silly question, but even with all the scary details, was there any connection?
Hey Girl,
Aren't PCOS and Type 2 diabetes are result of being overweight? I know what you are saying.. that some people are more predisposed to being overeaters than others. I used to watch my Mum devour a huge meal, then 3 hours later, go back and eat some more when she was pissed. I know that many of my bad habits are a result what I have witnessed and adopted as my own bad habits. However, as Dr Phil says.. you can cry about it and do nothing, or take action and change it. In saying this, I need to point out to you that at 31, I have NEVER gotten control over my weight problems, so I myself have a long, long weight to go, before my weight issues are resolved. I am here for you if you need me. Very nice to meet you.
Hey rebecca... Love your comment about Hey Bitch on my blog... I am assuming you think it is your hillbilly name!! hahaha
I dont blame you for running amile now... thanks for the explanation...
Umm also I didnt think PCOS was caused by being overweight???
I'm sorry, girl. I know how discouraging dates like this must be. At least you found out all that now and not later. Any other prospects? :-)
You should have asked him to lick your rash (eager to please) and then dump him.
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